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家长的问题:我欣慰自己有一个自由自在的童年,自然也不希望让自己的儿子过早地承受人生的重压。但为此,我与妻子之间的“战争”就开始没完没了。儿子读小班时,妻子风雨无阻带孩子去参加小提琴培训班;儿子读中班时,妻子又让他学画画;儿子上大班了,妻子对儿子的“超前教育”更是变本加厉了:每天晚上要辅导儿子写字、做算术,连星期天也不放过。每当我发现儿子显得疲惫不堪,甚而采取“出工不出力”的消极抵抗策略时,我总忍不住要向妻子发起激
Parents’ question: I am relieved that I have a free childhood, and naturally I do not want to let my son bear the weight of life prematurely. But for this reason, the “war” between me and my wife began endless. When her son read a small class, his wife took the children in a stormy and uncertain way to attend the violin training class. When his son was in mid-school, his wife let him learn to draw. When his son was in a class, his wife’s “advanced education” was even worse: every night To guide his son to write, do arithmetic, not even let Sunday. Whenever I find my son is too tired, and even take the negative resistance strategy of “not working hard,” I always can not help but motivate my wife