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几年婚姻生活的经历,总算使我明白了这句话;幸福的女人是男人培育下绽放的花朵,幸福的男人是女人滋润下成熟的果实,而美满的婚姻是在夫妻双方不图回报的奉献中日积月累的暖巢。刚结婚时,我有着许多女人共有通病,觉得夫妻一场,主要是男人得到了性方面的满足,女人只是付出自己,加上对婚姻生活的不适应,就老觉得自己亏了。每到同房的时候,看到丈夫激情满怀的样子,我总觉得性生活就是男人在女人身上得到发泄,我认为他的性快乐都是我给的,于是总有些患得患失的想法,心想:让他上床就不错了,还想让我怎样?所以对性生活的态度总是不积极主动,不愿意“给”得便宜了可慢慢地,我发现性生活中丈夫对我付出得很多,性生活前他总是精心准备,提早几个小时就和我培养情绪,到时候又忍受着亢奋和冲动长时间地爱抚我,进行中很关心我的感受。每在这时,我的脑海里便浮现了他平日对我的种种体贴,心里顿时充满了爱意。
A few years of marriage experience, finally made me understand this sentence; happy woman is under the nurture of blooming flowers, happy man is a woman under the ripening fruit moisture, and happy marriage is not the return of both husband and wife Dedicated to warm nest in China and Japan. Just got married, I have many common problems common to women, that a couple, mainly men have been satisfied with the sexual, women just pay themselves, coupled with marital maladaptation, they always feel lost. Every time I go to the same room and see my husband full of passion, I always think that sex is a man who gets vent in a woman. I think his sexual happiness is what I give, so there are always some thoughts and feelings. He was going to bed is not bad, but also want me how? So the attitude of sex life is always not proactive, do not want “give ” got cheaper can be slowly, I found that husband in my life to pay a lot for me Before sex, he was always careful to prepare and develop emotions with me a few hours earlier. When I was experiencing excitement and impulsiveness, I spent a long time caressing me and I was very concerned about my feelings. Every time at this time, my mind will be on his usual kind of thoughtful to me, my heart suddenly full of love.