给“表现自己”正名

• 作 者: 戴首之
• 出 处: 成才
• 发表日期: 1995年02期
• 关键词: 奖励证书 提点 令人 世俗偏见 合理化建议 “红眼病”

小学女教师曹某因教学有方,被县教育局授予“十佳园丁”际号。可是,表彰会后不久,曹某却跑到教育局,称其实在承受不了“爱出风头、表现自己”的压力,要求局收回奖励证书,还她一个安安静静的生活。此事令人深思!曾几何时,“表现自己”成了自不量力、狂傲自大的代名词,而“埋没自己”却被认为是“谦虚的美德”、“有修养的表现”。

Primary school female teacher Cao due to teaching, by the County Board of Education awarded the “Top Ten gardener” Jaguar. However, shortly after the commendation ceremony, Cao went to the Education Bureau and claimed that she could not afford the pressure of “showing off her head and showing her self” and demanded that the Bureau take back her reward certificate and give her a peaceful and quiet life. It was thought-provoking that in a few moments, “expressing oneself” became synonymous with self-inflicting arrogance and arrogance, while “burying oneself” was regarded as a “modest virtue” and “one with a cultivated performance.”