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最近,刚庆祝了结婚一周年纪念日的潇潇增加了与姐妹们聚会的频率。从前总爱赖在“二人世界”里而被指责为“重色轻友”的她,似乎对“回家”这事越来越有所顾忌。“每次我一回到家,第一件事就是通过老公的语气揣测他当天的心情。”潇潇说,“近来,他忽然变得爱唠叨起来,所有的烦心事全都要向我汇报,就好像我是万能的上帝,可以帮他解决一切问题。你说他是不是有什么心理问题啊?”而事实上,潇潇的老公并没有“问题”,因为很多婚姻中人都会有喜欢向配偶倾诉不快的习惯,就像家里的垃圾积累到一定程度就必须清除出门一样。只是女人向男性配偶的倾诉行为被社会广泛认可,而男性的种种“唠叨”则被定义为是“娘娘腔”。
Recently, the justness of the anniversary of the first anniversary of marriage was celebrated to increase the frequency of gathering with sisters. She used to be accused of being “recklessly lighter” in her “two-person world,” and she seems increasingly scruples about “going home.” “Every time I get home, the first thing is to speculate about his mood through her husband’s tone.” Xiaoxiao said, “Recently, he suddenly became nagging. All the annoying things to be reported to me. As if I am the Almighty God, I can help him solve all the problems.Do you say that he is not having any psychological problems? ”In fact, Xiaogong’s husband did not“ have any problems ”because many people in marriage would like to talk to his spouse Unpleasant habits, like the accumulation of garbage at home to a certain extent, we must clear out the same. It is only women’s spouse to male spouse’s behavior is widely recognized by society, and men’s “nagging” is defined as “sissy.”