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吾少时生长于农村,印象中家教很严,凡事均有规矩。比如吃饭,看似寻常却很讲究,须等长辈开饭,兄弟姐妹按位就座,坐姿端正,饭桌上不许喧哗。如有不到位的地方,父亲满脸严肃,耳提面命,毫不留情。若是家里来客摆酒席,小孩子和女人是不能上桌的。长大了,觉得这就是礼,家内、家外,乃至待人处世均需依礼行事,也懂得了父亲“养不教,父之过”的一片苦衷。
When I grew up in rural areas less, the impression is very strict tutoring, everything has rules. Such as eating, it seems unusual but very particular, have to wait for elders to eat, siblings seating seated, sitting posture, no noise on the table. If not in place, his face full of dignified, ear-picks, mercilessly. If the guests home banquet, children and women can not be served. Grow up, I think this is the ceremony, at home, outside the home, and even treat others are required to act according to the ceremony, but also understand his father “not to teach, the father had ” a struggle.