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一、改变不良的家庭氛围父母缺乏修养,举止粗俗,彼此间缺乏尊重,动辄脏话满嘴,互相说些“抬杠”的话,孩子一旦具备了一定理解水平,就会从心底不尊敬父母,顶嘴便成了家常便饭。二、责备孩子要慎重常常不讲方式、场合地批评孩子,是父母的通病。有些批评十分尖锐,却不完全正确,伤了孩子的自尊心,渐渐引起孩子内心的愤恨、埋怨、甚至记仇。所以批评孩子前先要弄清缘由,不要乱批评;需要批评时,要注意语
First, to change the poor family atmosphere Parents lack of self-cultivation, vulgar behavior, lack of respect for each other, often swearing mouthful, say something to each other, “lift bar”, then, once the child has a certain level of understanding, will not respect my parents from the bottom of my heart, It has become commonplace. Second, to blame the children to be cautious often do not speak the way, occasionally criticize the child, is a common problem of parents. Some criticisms are very sharp, but not completely correct, hurt the child’s self-esteem, and gradually cause children’s resentment, complain, and even revenge. Therefore, we must first understand the reasons for the criticism of children, do not indiscriminate criticism; need criticism, pay attention to language