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面对着经济和社会的日益繁荣,不少家庭在教育子女上出现了一些偏差。很多人在子女智力投资开发上一掷千金,毫不吝惜,而对子女品德、操守、意志等方面的培养上,投入的精力和财力却微乎其微,导致家庭教育中“缺德”现象比较严重。在这种重智轻德的家庭环境影响下,一些孩子智商虽然较高,却养成了狭隘、自私、冷漠、自大、多疑等不健康的心理习惯,成为衣来伸手、饭来张口、以自我为中心的“新贵”,经不起风雨、挫折和失败。
Faced with the increasingly prosperous economy and society, many families have shown some deviations in educating their children. Many people spend huge amounts of money on children’s intellectual investment and development without any hesitation. On the cultivation of children’s morality, integrity and determination, their energy and financial resources have been neglected, resulting in a serious “lack of morality” in family education. Under the influence of this family environment of high intelligence and light morality, although some children have higher IQs, they have developed unhealthy mental habits of narrowness, selfishness, indifference, arrogance and suspiciousness. Self-centered “upstart” can not stand the storm, setbacks and failures.