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人的一生要接受家庭教育、学校教育、社会教育。而良好的家庭教育,对人的进步影响是终身难忘的。就近年全国的家庭教育而言,确实有了这样几个变化:家长对子女由单纯的情感支配向理智的爱升华,家长对子女的教育由经验育人向科学育人转变,家庭教育由单纯关心知识学习向重视教育孩子做人转变,家庭教育的方式由简单的家长式向平等、民主转变,家庭教育工作由城镇逐步向农村展开并逐步普及,家庭教育的知识已从专家谈、报刊登,发展成为家长们的共识和行为的转变等等。但是,不可否认的是,当前的家庭教育还存在着一些误区。有相当一些家长受片面人才观的影响,在如何帮助孩子成人、成才方面存在种种困惑,他们不知道怎样去爱孩子,怎样去教育孩子。有的家长把追求孩子获得高分摆在家庭教育的首位,而不懂得如何培养孩子求知、生存、合作、发展的能力;有的家长对素质教育认识偏颇,逼迫孩子非要通过
People’s life to accept family education, school education, social education. The good family education, the impact of human progress is unforgettable. In recent years, there have been a few changes in family education throughout the country: parents love their children from purely emotional domination to rational love, parents’ education of their children from experienced educators to science educators, family education from simple Concerned about the knowledge to learn to pay attention to the education of children as people change, family education from simple parent-style to equality and democracy change, family education from urban areas to gradually start and gradually spread to rural areas, knowledge of family education has talked from experts, The development of parents as a consensus and change in behavior and so on. However, it is undeniable that there are still some misunderstandings in current family education. A considerable number of parents affected by the concept of one-sided talent, there are all kinds of puzzles in how to help children become adults and talents. They do not know how to love their children and how to educate their children. Some parents put the pursuit of children to get high scores in the first place of family education, but do not know how to develop children’s knowledge, survival, cooperation and development capabilities; Some parents biased understanding of quality education, forcing children to pass