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按人之常情,对于友好的邀请,欣然接受显然胜于断然拒绝。但,鉴于生活的复杂性,有时却偏偏不能应允,那么,该怎么办?请听庄子《秋水》中的一个故事。一次,庄子正在河边挺悠悠然地钓鱼,突然来了两位楚王的使臣,他们恭恭敬敬地对庄子说:“先生,我们大王想请您到朝廷做官,您同意吗?”庄子无意当官,直截了当地拒绝又有失礼貌,于是做了
According to people’s feelings, it is obviously better than categorically rejecting a friendly invitation. However, due to the complexity of life, sometimes it cannot be answered. Then, what should I do? Please listen to one of the stories in Zhuangzi’s Autumn Water. Once, Zhuangzi was leisurely fishing by the river. Suddenly he came to the two kings of Chu. He respectfully said to Zhuangzi: “Sir, our king wants to invite you to the court as an official. Do you agree? ”Zhuangzi did not intend to be an official, refused to be polite and refused to be polite, so he did