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Q:丫丫6个月时,我销假上班。自此,白天外婆来看护她,下班以后我再接手。现在丫丫3岁4个月了,让我头痛的是,她在陌生的环境里总不敢主动表达自己的意愿,也从不主动与人交往,在家则没有这个问题。比如:其他孩子抢她的东西,她不知躲闪拒绝,更别提去要回来。但是东西被抢走后她会对我发脾气;外人给她东西,无论多么想玩、想要、想吃,也不敢自已拿,必须让我帮着拿回来,至少要拉上我才行;刚上幼儿园时,即使大小便憋得难受,也不敢跟老师说……这样的例子太多了。我也很头痛为什么她这么没有安全感。
Q: Yaya 6 months, I sell off to work. Since then, the grandmother to care for her during the day, I will take over after get off work. Now Yaya 3-year-old 4 months, let me have a headache is that she always afraid to take the initiative to express their wishes in an unfamiliar environment, and never take the initiative to deal with people at home is not the problem. For example: Other children grab her things, she did not dodge refuse, let alone come back. But after she was taken away, she would lose my temper. When an outsider gave her something, no matter how much she wanted to play, want, want to eat, she did not dare to take it by himself or herself. When I first arrived in kindergarten, I could not tell the teacher even though I had a small amount of urine, so many examples were available. I am also a headache why she is so insecure.