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在中国人的人际交往中,“面子”是始终无法回避的话题,面子是什么?这个不能吃、不能喝、不能当钱花的东西,为什么中国人如此讲究,一辈子为它而活?其实,面子就是尊严、地位、身份。地位越高、权势越大,面子也最有份量。常听到有头有脸的说,今儿看在我的薄面上这事就算了,如果换成平民老百姓说的话,谁能睬你,谁能把你当回事!小小的饭局最能彰显中国人的面子观,能把有面子的人请来自己也会显得更有面子,这不,常听到人这样说:“阁下能来,真是蓬荜生辉!”
In the Chinese people's interpersonal communication, “face ” is the always unavoidable topic, the face is what? This can not eat, can not drink, can not be spent on money, why Chinese people so stress, lifetime life for it? In fact, face is dignity, status, identity. The higher the status, the greater the power, the most weight the face. Often hear the head and face that today look on my thin matter, even if this, if replaced by civilians say, who can ignore you, who can take care of you! Face to face view, can be face to face people invited to themselves will appear even more face-to-face, this is not, often hear people say: "Your Excellency can come, really supernatural!