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批评,就像父母和孩子之间的一颗定时炸弹,轻则流泪,重则伤骨,每次批评都像父母和孩子之间微妙的博弈。批评的本意是指正,是矫枉,是爱之深、痛之切,而后果往往不尽如人意,孩子们或置若罔闻,或叛逆之心更盛,考验着你的信心、耐心和爱心。你知道怎么说,孩子才会听;怎么听,孩子才会说吗?也许,你该好好了解下批评孩子的艺术。
Criticism, like a time bomb between parents and children, ranging from tears to heavy weight, every criticism is like a subtle game between parents and children. The original meaning of criticism is to correct oneself, to be overcorrected, to love deeply, to painfully cut off, and the consequences are often unsatisfactory. The children either turn a deaf ear or turn their hearts of rebelliousness and test your confidence, patience and love. Do you know how to say that your child will listen? If you listen, will your child say? Perhaps you should understand the art of criticizing your child.