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在中国,大多数家庭的父母,都会竭尽全力为孩子营造一个无菌的成长环境,很少会有家长在孩子面前吵架、有亲热动作、或者更进一步的行为,更不会抱怨自己工作的辛苦,赚钱的不易,极力为孩子打造一个恒温的真空空间。其实每一个正常的家庭,做父母的有都会亲热动作和吵架行为,食色性也,像吃饭和穿衣一样正常。可是在传统的家庭里,这些场面基本上是看不到的,这些正常的举动在孩子面前基本上被屏蔽掉,父母在孩子面前努力保持正襟危坐,正人君子的风度,表面上一片祥和宁静。
In China, parents of most families try their best to create a germ-free environment for their children. There are few parents who quarrel with their children, intimacy, or even more behaviors, and will not complain about the hard work of their own work , Not easy to make money, strongly for children to create a constant vacuum of space. In fact, every normal family, parents will have intimate action and quarrel behavior, food color, as normal as eating and dressing. However, in traditional families, these scenes are basically invisible. These normal behaviors are basically masked in front of children. Parents are trying hard to keep their children sitting in front of their children. On the surface, they are gentle and quiet.