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在日常生活中,一些家长不同程度地对孩子使用利诱、许诺等方法教育孩子。可到头来往往是家长作茧自缚,走进了一条死胡同。那么问题究竟在哪儿呢?利诱,也可称之为贿赂,我们常听到不少家长对孩子这样说:“如果你考试成绩优秀,那么爸爸奖你10元钱。”“如果你加入少先队,那么就在假期带你去旅游。”……这种说话方式许多家长已经习以为常。从现象看,有时确能刺激孩子作出努力,但从本质上并不能鼓励弦子作继续不断的努力,而且会给孩子造成父母不信任自己之感。假如用利诱来引发孩子的学习动机,
In daily life, some parents use different methods such as temptation and promise to educate their children. To the end is often parents cocoon, into a dead end. So where is the problem? Incentives, also known as bribes, we often hear many parents say to their children: “If you test outstanding, then dad you award 10 yuan. ” “If you Join the Young Pioneers, then take you on vacation during the trip. ”" ... This way of speaking many parents have become accustomed to. From the phenomenon of view, sometimes it can stimulate children’s efforts, but in essence does not encourage the string to make continuous efforts, but also to give children a sense of parents do not trust themselves. If temptation to induce the child’s learning motivation,