别拿5岁孩子不当大人

• 作 者: 张入匀
• 出 处: 婚姻与家庭(性情读本)
• 发表日期: 2011年10期
• 关键词: 猫捉老鼠 对我说 给你 满口答应 你喜欢 对你说 亲子关系 点读 手工纸 自我意识

如果不想在孩子15岁时,与他玩猫捉老鼠的游戏玩到抓狂,那么,从他5岁起,多花心思把他“拉拢”。毕竟,这时的斗智斗勇,比15岁时要轻松多了。有秘密,你不能看儿子从3岁起自己独自睡一个房间,不过有雷打不动的规矩:一、睡前讲故事;二、关门时留道缝;三、客厅要留灯。可是就在他5岁的某一天,那条门缝,没了。具体在哪一天发生的改变,我不清楚。总之,儿子关上了房门,有了自己完整的小世界。

If you do not want to play crazy with his cat and mouse while he is 15, spend more time thinking of him. After all, wits and wars at this time are much easier than at the age of fifteen. There are secrets, you can not see his son from 3 years old to sleep alone in their own room, but there are unshakeable rules: First, tell stories before going to bed; Second, keep the door closed; Third, the living room to stay lights. But just one day in his 5-year-old, the door cracked, gone. I do not know exactly what happened on that day. In short, the son closed the door, with his own complete little world.