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今年的《父母必读》杂志第二期上刊登了一篇文章,看后使我久久难以平静。这篇文章名为“一个九岁孩子自杀引起的反思。”我觉得这个悲剧的发生,看似偶然,其实有其必然因素,这便是我国传统的教育方式带来的弊端。我也是一位母亲,多年来按照自己的想法对孩子施以教育,有一定收获,在此愿将自己的心得与各位家长交流。我的儿子卫方今年已4岁了,因为工作忙, 3岁一过就送他去了全托幼儿园,每周接一次。记得第一次送他进幼儿园时,许多孩子都在哭,可方方却懂事地和爸爸妈妈招手再见,表现得很理智。第一个周末接他时,老师说,孩子们因对新环境不习慣,常在晚上哭着要妈妈,但卫方自制力很强,不但不哭,
This year’s Parents Read magazine issues an article in the second issue that makes it difficult for me to calm down after a long time. This article is titled “Reflections Caused by Commitment by a 9-Year-Old Child.” "I think this tragedy, which seems to have happened by chance, actually has its own necessary elements. This is the drawback of the traditional education in our country. I am also a mother, who has educated her children for years according to her own ideas and has a certain harvest. I hereby wish to exchange my feelings with parents. My son, Wei, has been 4 years old this year, because he is busy with work and sent him to a daycare kindergarten at the age of 3, once a week. I remember when I first sent him to kindergarten, many children were crying, and they could only say good-bye and good-bye to Mom and Dad. The first weekend pick him up, the teacher said the children are not accustomed to the new environment, often cried to her mother at night, but Wei self-control is very strong, not only do not cry,