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许多夫妻婚前恋爱甜蜜美丽,婚后却被家庭琐事所累,觉得生活趣味索然,有的人甚至叹道:“婚姻是爱情的坟墓。”为什么会有这种情况发生呢? 恋爱与结婚是婚姻的两个不同阶段,从恋爱到结婚,人的行为和心理都要发生很大的变化。如果对此没有充分的思想准备并及时调整适应,就会产生婚后不如婚前甜蜜的感觉。其中的原因大致有以下几个方面:一是在恋爱阶段,双方为博得对方欢心,往往极力表露优点和美德,比如性情暴躁的在情人面前显得很温顺,任性的表现得很随和,吝啬的人此时也很大方,而结婚后
Many couples love sweet and beautiful pre-marital marriage, but after the marriage was tired of family trivial, feel the fun of life, and some even sigh: “Marriage is the tomb of love.” Why would this happen? Love and marriage is a marriage In two different stages, from love to marriage, people’s behavior and psychology have undergone great changes. If you do not have adequate mental preparation and adjust to adapt to it, it will produce the feeling of marriage than before the sweet. The reasons are generally the following aspects: First, in the stage of love, the two sides to win each other’s favor, often strongly reveal the advantages and virtues, such as temperament temper in front of the lover appears to be very docile, self-willed performance was very easygoing, stingy person At this time is also very generous, and after marriage