人际交往:力避顾此失彼

• 作 者: 敖忠生
• 出 处: 现代交际
• 发表日期: 1994年04期
• 关键词: 人际交往 交际对象 公团 客户联系 爱国主义精神 抗日英雄 行为表现 心理距离 现实生活 情感态度

现实生活中，人与人之间的交往，常常有顾此失彼的现象．请先看如下三例：例一，某男青年一次在电影院门口，因一心顾着与女友津津有味地谈论电影中的人物，却没有注意到他的一个要好的男朋友站在他身边多时．当对方向他说明有要事相告时，他只是谈谈一言：“以后再说．”从此

In real life, the intercourse between people often has the opposite effect. First look at the following three cases: Example 1, a young man once in the cinema door, due to one’s heart and his girlfriend relish talking about the characters, but did not notice his good boyfriend standing around him for a long time. When the other party tells him something important to tell, he just talks about it: “Say it later.”