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父母爱自己的孩子毋庸置疑,可是怎样智慧地爱孩子才能滋养孩子的心灵成长呢?首先要从接纳开始,接纳是指接纳儿童本人,接纳他的感受、个性、想法,并给予儿童尊重和关注。接纳是孩子成长和培养自信的最佳土壤,接纳使爱变得恒定。而接纳是从童年开始建立起来的,父母无条件地接纳孩子,孩子才会接纳自己,转而接纳他人。父母如何看待接纳,直接影响亲子互动模式,进而影响亲子关系。
Parents love their children no doubt, but how to love their children in order to nurture the child’s spiritual growth? First of all, from the acceptance, admission is to admit the child himself, to accept his feelings, personality, ideas and give children respect and concern . Admission is the best soil for children to grow and develop self-confidence, acceptance to make love constant. Acceptance is established from childhood, parents accept children unconditionally, the child will accept themselves, and instead accept others. How parents view acceptance, a direct impact on parent-child interaction mode, thereby affecting parent-child relationship.