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生病本是一个难得的机会,可以帮助我们认识到命运的无常,修正不切实际的生活信念,接受我们无法掌控的厄运,从而放弃毫无必要的自我苛责。女儿感冒了,姥姥教育她说:“你看!都是因为你平时不好好喝水,才会生病。”让孩子多喝水很重要,但是没必要把喝水和生病这两件事联系起来。因为没有任何证据表明,每天多喝水就可以不生病。姥姥其实也是一片苦心,拿生病这件事作为契机,让孩子重视。她不需要科学研究来证明,这次感冒确实是因为喝水少导致的。假如女儿最近
Sickness is a rare opportunity to help us recognize the fate of impermanence, correct unrealistic beliefs about life, accept doom that we can not control, and thus give up unnecessary self-blame. Daughter cold, grandmother education, she said: “You see, are because you usually do not drink well, will be sick.” "It is important for children to drink plenty of water, but there is no need to drink water and sick of these two things Link up. Because there is no evidence that you can drink more water everyday without getting sick. In fact, grandma is also a painstaking, get sick this incident as an opportunity for children to attach importance. She does not need scientific research to prove that the cold really did not result from drinking less water. If my daughter is lately