“不,我要自己做”

• 作 者: 李永珍
• 出 处: 幼儿教育
• 发表日期: 2002年Z1期
• 关键词: 对你说 完一 颠地 家务劳动 劳动习惯 正规训练 收尾工作 程序操作 生活习惯

接触过我儿子的邻居、朋友,常常会冒出这么一句话:“你的儿子个性特强。”这话褒贬不一,有欣赏,也有不以为然的。记得孩子刚学会用简单的语言表达时,便时不时倔着头回敬我们:“不!”那时,丈夫不无忧虑地说:“这孩子这样倔强,如何教育是好?”随着孩子的“不”声与日俱增,且把“不”字付之于行动时,我们心中的忧虑却一扫而光,取而代之的是一个个惊喜。

Our neighbors and friends who have come into contact with my son often come up with the saying: “Your son is very strong.” The words are mixed, appreciated, and disagreeable. I remember the children just learn to use simple language, then from time to time stubbornly turn our heads back to you: “No!” At that time, her husband said without hesitation: “This child is so stubborn, how education is good?” With the child’s “ If the ”no“ sound is ever increasing and the ”no" word is paid for in action, the worries of our hearts are swept away and replaced by surprises.