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生活在现代社会中的人,很容易形成单一的人生战略:只想着搞好学习、只想着挣钱、只想着高学历、只想着出人头地……当人生追求变的单一,生活方式也会变的单一,这样的人心理会比较脆弱,承受力太差的人,自然很难获得幸福。这就好比有一堆鸡蛋,甲把它们全都放在一个篮子里,全力地看护好它们;乙却把它们分放在几个篮子里,甲的一个篮子一旦打破,就会失去所有的鸡蛋,而乙的篮子里的鸡蛋破了丢了,还能剩下其它几个篮子里的鸡蛋。幸福有时也如同这一堆鸡蛋,如果全部放进一个篮子里,就如同一栋大厦只有一支顶梁柱,一旦失去这个支撑
People living in modern society, it is easy to form a single strategy of life: just think of doing a good job, just want to earn money, only think highly educated, just think of the world ... ... When the pursuit of life change a single way of life Will become a single, such a person’s psychology will be more vulnerable, poor tolerance of people, it is difficult to get happiness naturally. It’s like having a bunch of eggs, putting them all in one basket, keeping them fully guarded; B dividing them in several baskets, and once one of baskets is broken, they lose all their eggs, The eggs in Basket B were shattered, leaving eggs in a few other baskets. Happiness is sometimes like a pile of eggs, if all into a basket, just as a building has only one pillar, once lost this support