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我女儿10岁了。在她4岁那年,我的家成了单亲家庭。大概没有人在十月怀胎时,就会想到当个单亲家庭中母亲这个角色。面对孩子,单亲家庭中的母亲往往更容易落入这样一个误区:孩子聪明乖巧,就沾沾自喜;孩子一有问题,就觉得丢了脸,毁了自己的希望。其实孩子虽小,却不是母亲手中的胶泥。他有自身的成长规律,单身母亲,虽然处处为难,但也要按孩子成长的规律办事。女儿刚上小学时,班主任经常“告状”,说她上课不听讲,下课捣蛋,又爱撒谎。有一次我出差了,她
My daughter is 10 years old. At the age of 4, my family became a single-parent family. When no one is conceiving in October, one may think of the role of mother in a single-parent family. In the face of children, mothers in single-parent families are often more likely to fall into such a misunderstanding: children clever and clever, complacent; children have problems, they feel lost face, ruined their hopes. In fact, although the child is small, it is not the mother’s mastic. He has its own laws of growth. Single mothers, though always in a dilemma, must act according to the laws of the child’s growth. When her daughter first came to primary school, the teacher often “complained” that she did not listen in class, she was in a bad working get out of class and was lying. I once went on a business trip, she