转变是一场持久战

• 作 者: 高慧玲 刘述森
• 机 构: 胶州市向阳小学,胶州市特殊教育中心,
• 出 处: 山东教育
• 发表日期: 2015年25期
• 关键词: 给你 一朵小红花 表现好

一个学生家长给我打电话说,孩子在家里不听话,让她狠狠地收拾了一顿。孩子哭过后,对她说:“妈妈,我也知道你打我是为了我好。”我听了后也不禁笑了。家长抱怨道:“高老师,你说说,这孩子什么都明白,什么都知道,但就是过后就忘,转头就变,真能叫她气死。”我对这个家长说,这个现象很普遍。这不是一场速决战,而是持久战。我们要有心理准备,同时一定要注意方式方法,因为如果总是用单一的方式,学生可能会产生逆反心理。只要老师和家长巧妙地长期地努力,一定可以把这场战斗打赢。

A student’s parents called me and said that the child was disobedient at home and had her severely tidied up. After the child cried, said to her: “Mom, I also know that you hit me for my good. ” I heard can not help but laugh. Parents complain: “High teacher, you talk about, this child knows everything, know everything, but just after forgetting, turned around and can really call her mad. ” I said to the parents, this phenomenon very common. This is not a quick war but a protracted war. We need to be mentally prepared, and we must pay attention to the ways and means, because if we always use a single way, students may produce rebelliousness. As long as the teachers and parents skillfully and long-term efforts, we must be able to win this battle.