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过去,我的教子方法是“棍棒底下出人才”。女儿稍不如我意,我就铁青着脸,狠狠地骂:“你这个没出息的!”我还喜欢打人,女儿做错了事,我的火气就上来了,忍不住便顺手打她几下,似乎如此才能解恨。这样一来,女儿自然很怕我,见了我就像老鼠见了猫。时间一长,她对我产生了敌对情绪。妻子也骂我,说我不懂养儿育女,靠恶言冷语和拳脚相加,只会伤女儿的自尊。我才不管那么多呢,反正我的想法是:三句好话,不如一次痛骂。
In the past, my teaching method was “stick out talent”. My daughter is not as good as I intended, I blunt face, fiercely scolded: “I did not pay! ” I also like to hit people, my daughter did something wrong, my anger is up, could not help it Easily hit her a few times, it seems that in order to solve the hate. As a result, my daughter is naturally afraid of me, met with me like a mouse met the cat. Over time, she was hostile to me. My wife also scolded me, saying that I do not know how to raise a child. By adding up foul language and fisting, I only hurt my daughter’s self-esteem. I do not care so much, anyway, my idea is: three good words, it is better to criticize once.