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怎样过生日,是一个涉及私人生活的问题,本来不应该拿来在这里大做文章。可是,从对长宁区愚园路第一小学部分学生和家长做的“小学生生日方式”调查中,我们发现,生日成了某些孩子翘首以盼的“索取”良机,豪华的生日造成了孩子“自我为中心”欲望的膨胀;孩子只是一味地接受被爱,很少付出爱。对此,家长有太多的困惑和无奈。如今的孩子集长辈的宠爱于一身,造成了孩子“自我为中心”的自私心理,而家长的从众心理.社会的大环境又助长了孩子的这种爱慕虚荣、高消费等不良心理的形成。究竟要不要过生日不是我们关注的焦点,应怎样过生日才算既有意义,又能促进孩子健康成长.这才是我们问题的关键。
How to get a birthday is a matter involving personal life and should not have been used here to make a big fuss. However, from the “primary school students' birthday” survey conducted on the pupils and parents of the first primary school in Yuyuan Road, Changning District, we found that birthday has become a very promising “request” opportunity for some children, and the luxurious birthday has caused children “Self-centered” desire to expand; children just blindly accept being loved, rarely pay for love. In this regard, parents have too much confusion and helplessness. Today's children gather in favor of elders, resulting in the child's “self-centered” selfish psychology, while the parents of the public psychology. The social environment has contributed to the child's vanity, high consumption and other negative psychology formation. Whether to have a birthday or not is not the focus of our attention, how to live as a birthday is not only meaningful, but also to promote the healthy growth of children.This is the crux of our problem.