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通过观察发现,相当多的家长对孩子最为关心的是两个:一是身体好,二是智能高,而对智能的关心又胜过对孩子身体的关心.他们希望孩子的身体健康,更希望孩子聪明.学习好,将来升入初中、高中、大学,考上研究生等,让孩子顺着他们早就划定了的人生阶梯走下去.这种对孩子智力情况的过分关注的另一方面,往往是对孩子道德教育的忽视.这样做的结果必然会使孩子的健康成长受到损害.父母爱孩子,这是人之常情,但是娇惯溺爱就有害了.必须注意对孩子进行道德品质的教育,对于孩子的缺点、错误,不能视而不见.充耳不闻,一味护短、包庇.我们不妨举一个实际例子:有一个独生子,他的父母、祖父祖母和外公外婆都把他当作掌上明珠,不但给他吃好、穿好,而且对他百依百顺,走路怕累着,出去怕冻着,娇惯纵容.结果使这个孩子从小养成了任性、骄横的坏习惯.上学后,不但不好好学习,还经常违犯纪律,老师反映给家长,家长还百般袒护.从此以后,孩子更加肆无忌惮,认为谁也管不了他,最后走上了犯罪的道路,被送去强制劳动.爱子之心,人皆有之.只停留在—般禽兽都能做到的爱上是不行的.正如高尔基所说:爱护子女,这是母鸡都会做的事,对子只爱不教就成了溺爱,如此后果是可怕的.
Through observation we found that quite a few parents are most concerned about their children in two ways: one is good health, the other is high intelligence, and care for intelligence outweighs the concern for their children’s bodies. They want their children’s health to be more hopeful Children are clever.Study well, and in the future into junior high school, high school, university, admitted to graduate school, let the children go down along their life ladder has been demarcated.Such too much attention on the other hand, Often neglects the children’s moral education.The result of this will inevitably make the child’s healthy growth suffer.Parents love children, it is human nature, but spoiled spoiled is harmful.We must pay attention to the moral education of children, We may wish to cite a practical example: an only child, his parents, grandparents and grandparents, grandparents and grandparents treat him as a pearl, not only to eat him well, Wear well, but also to his obedience, afraid of walking tired, afraid of cold out, used to conniving.As a result, this child developed a wayward, arrogant and bad habits.After school, But did not study hard, often violated the discipline, the teacher is reflected to the parents, parents also protect each other .From then on, the child more unscrupulously, that who can not control him, finally embarked on the road of crime, was sent to forced labor. It is not enough to just stay in the love that ordinary beasts can do, as Gorky said: love their children, this is what hens will do, love only or not Doted love, so the consequences are terrible.