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爸爸们也和妈妈们一样,不同的年龄层有着不同的不安。四十几岁到五十一二岁的爸爸们经历了很多事情。这一代的爸爸虽然很有头脑,但是年轻时家境过于贫寒,因此他们没能得到充分的帮助。另外,儿时因为生活艰辛,或者因为与父母的矛盾日渐激化,这一代的爸爸从没有和父母进行过真挚诚恳的交流,在学习上也没有得到过父母的特别关注。他们总会在心里打算,如果自己做了父亲,一定不会让自己的孩子因为贫穷而读不起书。因此,这些爸爸从不会对家务事上心,只会一心埋首于外面的工作。他们每天要认真工作、努力赚钱,还要对付各种各样的酒席应酬,几乎没有和孩子沟通交流的时候。
Dads, like mothers, have different levels of anxiety. Dads in their 40s and 51s experienced a lot of things. Although fathers of this generation are very headstrong, they were too poor to live in when they were young, so they did not get enough help. In addition, because of the arduous life during childhood or the increasingly intensified conflicts with their parents, the fathers of this generation have never had sincere and sincere exchanges with their parents and have not received any special attention from their parents in their studies. They always intend in mind that if they themselves became fathers, they would not allow their children to fail to read books because of poverty. Therefore, these dads never worry about housework, they only concentrate on the outside work. They work hard every day, work hard to make money, have to deal with a wide range of banquets, almost no time to communicate with their children.