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“功课做完了吗?”这几乎是每位做父母的下班回家,见到孩子的第一句话。它凝聚着父母们的许多期望,也包含着他们的许多焦虑。做家庭作业是必要的,问题是有些孩子讨厌做功课。父母监督过严,孩子就会产生逆反心理。这个头痛的问题折磨着许多父母。有的话天天说,效果未必好。如果一位厂长每天下班时都守在厂门口问工人:“你定额完成了吗?”这和一回家就问孩子功课引起的心理反感,恐怕是差不多的。为什么我们不问问:“今天你什么课上得最有意思?”“你向老师提了什么问题?”“球赛胜负如何?”“你借到了什么新
“Did you finish your homework?” It was almost every parent who came home from get off work to see his first words. It embodies many of the expectations of parents, but also contains many of their anxiety. Homework is necessary, the problem is that some children hate to do their homework. Parents oversight, the child will produce rebellious. The headache problem afflicts many parents. If anything, say it every day, the effect may not be good. If a factory manager keeps the factory door every day after get off work and asks the worker: “Are you quota complete?” It is almost the same as when I came home to ask the psychological aversion caused by my child’s homework. Why do not we ask, “What is the most interesting lesson for you today?” “What questions did you ask the teacher?” “How did the match go?” "What did you borrow?