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在我国的传统伦理观念中,父亲和儿子在家中的地位从来就没有平等过。从孔子的“父父子子”规范,到孟子的“五伦”学说,再到董仲舒的“三纲”原理,父亲始终占据着统治地位,儿子只能屈从,否则就是无道和不孝。近代以来,西风东渐,科学、民主思想深入人心,但中国人的父子关系似乎仍停留在封建时代,儿子对平等的强烈要求仍被称为“逆反”。如何摆正自己的位置,做顺应时代要求的父亲?让我们先来听听著名演员朱时茂的教子故事。
In our traditional ethics, the status of father and son in the family has never been equal. From Confucius’s “Father and Son” norms to Mencius’s “Five Lunas” theory, to Dong Zhongshu’s “Three Gangs” principle, his father has always dominated the status of the son can only submit, otherwise it is no Road and unfilial. Since the modern times, the trend of the east westerly, science and democracy have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. However, it seems that the Chinese father-son relationship still remains in the feudal era. The son’s strong demand for equality is still called “rebellion.” How to adjust their own position, to comply with the requirements of the times the father? Let us first listen to the famous actor Zhu Shimao the godson story.