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刚满30个月的赞赞非要自己剥橘子,我给她弄好,她就拒吃。小赞把里面的瓤都剥破了,弄得衣服上、手上全是汁。可她吃得津津有味、不亦乐乎。这件小事没有引起我的重视,更没有认识到这事与孩子的自尊心有关。尽管我知道每个人都有自尊心,但它是与生俱来的吗?我不这样认为,总觉得这种尊重自己、不堪别人摆布的心态是要到长大以后,至少七八岁时才会有。所以后来发生在小赞身上的那件事,就让我措手不及。小赞33个月的时候,对妈妈的穿衣戴帽来了兴趣。当时她手的精细动作水平是:已经能够独立地完成用粗线穿过算盘珠子。我想如果她愿意学穿衣服也未尝
Just over 30 months praise like to peel their own oranges, I give her a good, she refused to eat. Small like the inside of the 瓤 are stripped, made clothes, hands full of juice. But she relished, enjoying themselves. This trivial matter did not attract my attention, but did not realize that this matter and the child’s self-esteem. Although I know that everyone has pride, is it innate? I do not think so. I always think that this attitude of respecting and being unbearable at the mercy of others is to be at least seven or eight years old when I grow up Have. So what happened later in the small favor, let me caught by surprise. Little Praise 33 months, interested in the mother’s dress cap. At the time her fine level of motion was that she had been able to pass the abacus beads through a thick thread independently. I think if she is willing to learn to wear clothes also taste