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孩子们都强烈渴望着与大人享受同等待遇,这是理所当然的。有的家长过于重视孩子们表面的面容、长相、动作以及能力、技能、知识等方面,常把自己的孩子同人家的孩子相比,促使孩子和别人竞争。这样就会使孩子变得心胸狭隘、好挑剔、胆小怕事。特别是当孩子有缺点时,这样的家长往往会严厉地斥责、憎恨和厌弃自己的孩子。于是,孩子就会产生误解,认为大人
It is a matter of course that children are eager to enjoy the same treatment as adults. Some parents pay too much attention to their children’s faces, looks, actions and abilities, skills, knowledge, etc., often their children compared with other children, to promote competition between children and others. This will make the child become narrow-minded, picky, timid. Especially when children have shortcomings, such parents often harshly rebuke, hate, and dislike their children. As a result, children will be misunderstood, that adults