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当我们俯下身子时,教育已经产生。当我们能够做到用心倾听孩子的声音时,他们便已经开始了积极思考,开始对事物有了较为清楚的认识。通常,一席话完毕,犯错者能立刻反省并承认错误;委屈者怨气尽出,能主动理解和宽容他人;无辜者则沉冤得雪。不需要太多严词厉色,一切如沐春风,随着倾听的深入,逐步打开学生的心结。然而,很多家长、教师利用自己的权威,遇事不问青红皂白,盖棺定论,不给孩子申辩的机会。其结果往往事与愿违,进一步助长孩子的逆反心理,为他们的成长埋下了深深的阴
Education has taken place as we bend over. When we can listen attentively to our children’s voices, they have already begun to think positively and started to have a clearer understanding of things. Normally, once the words are over, the wrongdoer can immediately reflect on and admit their mistakes. The grievances grievances are exhausted and they can take the initiative to understand and tolerate others. The innocent people get rid of snow. Do not need too much strict stern, everything breezes, with the deepening of listening, and gradually open the students heart knot. However, many parents and teachers make use of their authority, failing to be indiscriminate, deciding on the conclusion and not giving children the opportunity to argue. The results tend to be contrary to expectations, to further promote the child’s rebellious, for their growth buried a deep shade