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独生子女家庭普及的现在,对子女的教育培养越来越受到家长们的重视。许多父母宁肯自己吃苦受累,也要望子成龙,盼女为凤,这是可以理解的。但在教育孩子方面,不少家长对孩子在生活和学习上关怀备至,注重正统的政治思想教育,而忽略家庭情感教育,致使情感教育处于随其自然的状态之中。有的家长还把孩子禁锢到繁重的书本之中,束缚在封闭的家庭小圈子里,致使孩子孤立于广泛的社会交往和利益之外,以致会出现“学习上的尖子,感情上的呆子”现象。不少家长对此百思不得其解,实际上这和平时忽视家庭情感教育有很大关系。积极的情感教育是对孩子高尚的道德情操和积极向上的情感的培养,能使孩子养成感情丰富并且善于表露于外的好习惯,有利于增加家庭亲情和社会亲情,对孩子的成长具有重要意义。因此,在家庭教育中,情感教育占有很大比重,那么,如何对孩子进行情感教育呢?
Now that the one-child families are popularized, more and more attention has been paid to the education and training of their children. It is understandable that many parents would rather suffer and suffer from their own sufferings, but also want their children to be successful. However, in terms of educating their children, many parents care for their children’s life and study, pay attention to the orthodox political and ideological education while neglect their family emotional education, leaving the emotional education in its natural state. Some parents also confine their children to heavy books, and are trapped in small enclosed families, leaving their children isolated from a wide range of social contacts and interests, resulting in “learning aces, emotional dazes ”phenomenon. Many parents puzzled over this, in fact, this peacetime ignore family emotional education have a lot to do. Positive emotional education is to cultivate the noble moral sentiment and positive emotions of the children, make the children develop good feelings of being rich and being good at being exposed, help to increase the family affection and social affection, and have an important effect on the children’s growth significance. Therefore, in family education, emotional education accounts for a large proportion, then, how to emotionally educate children?