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我是个随性平和的人,所以对女儿的教育,也一贯“道法自然”。就好比种树,只要确保根正,枝叶自然可以生长成万千姿态。不知何时起,教育成了一门深奥的学问,让很多父母究其一生仍为之困惑。初为人父时,我也曾惶惶然。在对女儿的幼时教育中,曾因一些矛盾冲突而着急上火,甚至动手打过她,可女儿的犟脾气反而更甚。事后我们冷静反思:教育如治水,宜疏不宜堵;父母的手,应该是为孩子指引未来,而不是用来指责孩子的。于是,我们开始改变,试着让
I am a casual person, so my daughter’s education has always been “natural”. Just like planting trees, just make sure the root is growing and the branches and leaves naturally grow into thousands of poses. I do not know when, education has become a profound knowledge, so many parents are still confused for the rest of their lives. When I first became a father, I was also panic. In her childhood education for her daughter, she was anxious to get angry because of some contradictions and conflicts, and even beat her, but her daughter’s temper is even worse. Afterwards, we calmly refute: Education such as water, should sparse should not plug; parents hand, should guide the future for the child, not to accuse the child. So, we started to change, try to let