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“请把玩具捡起来!”这是一个简单的要求。“不要乱扔东西!”或“把扔在地上的积木捡起来!”则是“命令”。有的宝宝对父母的“命令”不予理睬,经常是因为父母下达的命令不够清楚明确。何时下达“命令”当您要求宝宝停止某种不良行为,又感到宝宝有可能不服从时,您必须下达命令。同样,当您要求宝宝做出某种良好行为,您同时感到宝宝有可能不服从时,您也必须坚定的语气下达清楚的、直接的命令:“詹妮弗,在沙发上蹦跳是违反规定的,请马上下来!”这样,您就给了她一个清楚的命令。命令应该是明确的而不是含糊的如果您这样说:“过来,把这些玩具放到架子上!”宝宝则可能会在意,也会去执行。如果您的命令内容含糊不清,比如您说:“孩子,把这些玩具整理一下!”宝宝则会因为不明白而不去执行。当您下达命令时,不要使用评价或提问的方式您
“Please pick up the toy!” This is a simple requirement. “Do not throw things!” Or “Pick up the bricks thrown on the ground!” Is the “order.” Some babies neglect their parents ’“orders”, often because their parents’ orders are not clear enough. When to order “When you ask the baby to stop some kind of bad behavior, but also feel that the baby may not obey, you must order. Similarly, when you ask the baby to do something good and you also feel the baby may not be obedient, you must also give a firm, direct order: ”Jennifer, jumping on the couch is a violation of the rules, please Get right down! “So you gave her a clear order. The commands should be clear rather than vague if you say, ”Come and put the toys on the shelves!“ The baby might care and would do it. If your order is ambiguous, say for example: ”Kids, tidy up these toys!" Your baby will not do it because she does not understand it. When you order, do not use the way you evaluate or ask questions