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“双重束缚”是50年代由家庭治疗大师贝特森对家庭动力学中一种矛盾情景的经典描述。他认为:“双重束缚是一种父母之间或父母与子女之间交流时在关系水平与内容水平上明显矛盾,使家庭交流发展出一种矛盾的不确定性,不知道对方是关心自己还是抱怨自己。”正如父亲说:“我这样做是为了爱你!”而孩子却能听出接下来的准是严厉训斥或者大祸临头。
“Double bondage” is a classic description of a contradictory scenario in family dynamics by family therapist Bethson in the 1950s. In his opinion, the double bondage is a kind of contradictory uncertainty that arises when there is a contradiction between the level of parents and their children or between the parents and their children. It is a contradiction between the family level and the level of communication. I do not know whether the other side cares for himself or not Complain yourself. “” Just as my father said: “I did it to love you!” And the child could hear the rest of the words being harshly reprimanded or catastrophic.