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张小小,一个具有良好学习潜质的少年,却被家长赋予了过高的期望值。在他两次考试不太理想的情况下,父母托关系把小小送进了被孩子们称作“集中营”的“小私塾”里强化学习。在这个严酷得不近人情的地方,幼小、稚嫩的他精神几近崩溃,学习成绩也“一落千丈”。疲惫不堪的小小私下里曾和好朋友约定:“将来我们有了孩子,一定不让他考大学,只要他快乐、自由就行。”这是一个孩子发自内心的呼喊,我们做家长的没理由漠视它。望子成龙之心,天下父母皆有。让孩子成材也有很多方式,但无论哪一种方式都应兼顾到孩子的身心健康,都应该以孩子在快乐、自由的前提下愉悦地学习为原则。至于小小的父母逼孩子成材的方式可不可取,相信每位家长朋友读过本文之后,会有自己的看法。
Zhang Xiaoshuo, a young boy with good potential for learning, was given high expectations by his parents. In his two exams less than ideal, the parent-child relationship into the little children are called “concentration camp ” “private school ” in intensive learning. In this harsh place, the spirit of his young and innocent child has almost collapsed, and his academic performance has also plummeted. Tired and confused privately had agreed with friends: “In the future we have a child, must not let him enter the university, as long as he is happy, free on the line. ” This is a child cry from the heart, we do the parents No reason to ignore it. Succeed in the hope of the world, parents all over the world. There are many ways for children to get started, but no matter which way should take into account the child’s physical and mental health, should be based on the principle of happy learning of children under the premise of happiness and freedom. As for the way that small parents force their children to get started, it is not advisable to believe that every parent friend will have his or her own opinion after reading this article.