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对于一两岁的孩子来说,发脾气是家常便饭。因为孩子常常无法区分自己想要的、能做到的或能拥有的之间的区别。当他们无法控制事情,可能拿不到电话听筒,妈妈不帮他捡风车这样的小事,也会让他们的小脑袋里产生强烈的挫折感。他们既不会像成人那样协商,也不会自觉服从规则,除了发脾气,还能怎么办烦恼归烦恼,成长总是在复杂地发生着。孩子的发脾气背后,恰恰是自主意识的萌发。他比什么时候都愿意自己做事,甚至非常愿意帮大人做事。当然,你要为他们提供机会,保证安全;当他们无法完成任务时,允许他们发些小脾气。大部分孩子自己也不喜欢发脾气。试着帮助他们安静下来,然后表现出对他们的爱。
It is commonplace for one or two children to lose one’s temper. Because children often can not distinguish between what they want, can do or can have. When they have no control over things, they may not get the telephone receiver, the little things Mom does not help him pick up the windmill, and the strong frustration in their little head. They do not negotiate just like adults do, and they do not subordinate themselves to the rules. In addition to losing their temper, they are always troubled with worry and growth is always happening in a complicated way. Behind the child’s tantrum, it is precisely the germination of self-awareness. He is willing to work on his own time, and he is even more than willing to work for adults. Of course, you have to give them the chance to be safe and to allow them a little temper when they can not get the job done. Most children do not like temper themselves. Try to help them calm down and show their love for them.