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小孩常常会利用父母的弱点来攻击,从心里学的观点看来,还运用得非常巧妙呢!其中有一项叫做“哭的战略”尤其令人头痛。有的父母的似乎特别怕孩子哭,而孩子也特别运用这个技巧,因为他知道,只要一哭以后,很多事就可以随心所欲了。据我的观察,这些父母之所以会怕孩子哭闹,是因为心疼孩子受苦。但是事实上这真是一个很大的误解,因为就算孩子受到什么痛苦或折磨,他们也未必会用哭泣来表示他们的情绪。譬如我们想想一个孩子在路上跌倒的情景吧!小孩因为身体的行动不太灵活,在平地上也会跌倒,但是这种连
Children often use the weaknesses of their parents to attack. From the perspective of psychology, it is also very clever. One of the strategies called “crying” is particularly troublesome. Some parents seem particularly afraid of crying children, and children also use this trick in particular, because he knows, as long as a cry, a lot of things can be arbitrary. According to my observation, the reason why these parents are afraid of children crying is because they feel bad about their children. But in fact this is really a big misunderstanding, because even if the child suffered any pain or torture, they may not necessarily use crying to express their emotions. For example, let’s consider a scene where a child falls down the road! Children will fall on the ground because the body’s actions are not very flexible. However,