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去年儿子离家去外地上大学之后,我和先生有了很大的自由空间。我们彼此把更多的精力投入各自的工作中。可是不知不觉,却忽略了对方的存在与感受。直到最近,我们之间频频发生冲突,我才意识到问题的严重性。先生指责我把自己封闭在狭小的圈子里,过着虚无缥缈的生活。我则抱怨他像一架工作机器,个人生活完全被工作所操控,丧失了自我控制能力。冷静下来之后,我明白指责和抱怨只是情绪的表达、生活的表象,最根本的问题是我们之间的关
My son and I had a lot of free space last year after my son left home for college. We put more energy into each other’s work. But unconsciously, but ignored each other’s existence and feelings. Until recently, conflicts between us were frequent and I realized the seriousness of the problem. Mr. accused me of enclosing myself in a narrow circle and living a life of naughtiness. I complain that he is like a working machine. His personal life is completely manipulated by his work and his self-control is lost. After I calm down, I understand that accusations and complaints are just the expression of emotions and the appearance of life. The most fundamental issue is the relationship between us