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和孩子交流思想,沟通感情的手段很多,但我认为最佳形式是书信。写信可以尽情抒怀,坦述己见,尤其是有些面对面难以启齿,或可能效果不理想的话题,书信常常有能产生意想不到的效应。写信,久而久之成了我的习惯,也成了我们家庭的习惯。起初,也出于无意。如我们要外出,孩子上学未归,只得留条,写明去何处,办何事,饭菜请他们自己动手等等。孩子也照样,有事出去来不及面告父母,就留条,以免大人惦念。后来就逐步发展成为交换思想的形式。记得孩子还在念中学时,有时为了某一小事,或有一定原则性问题,与大人争论不休,最后不仅看法难以统一,还常常不欢而
There are many ways to exchange ideas and communicate with your children, but I think the best form is correspondence. Writing letters can be as enjoyable as you like to express your opinion, especially when you have some face-to-face or indecisive topics that can often have unexpected effects. It has become my habit to write, as time passes, it has also become the habit of our family. At first, out of no intention. If we want to go out, children go to school did not go back, had to stay, explain where to go, what to do, meals, please do it yourself and so on. Children, too, go out and have time to face their parents to stay, so adults do not miss. Later, it gradually evolved into a form of exchange of ideas. I remember the children are still in high school, and sometimes for a trivial matter, or have some principles of the problem, argue endless with adults, the last not only difficult to unify the views, but also often dislike