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在人的所有情绪类型中,恼怒是最不善于控制的负面情绪。它一旦随着矛盾的郁积在心中生成,就如同坐在了火山口上,使人浑身燥热,心跳加快,像奔突的岩浆非得喷发一样,最终酿成争吵和冲突。柏拉图说:人越愚,越争吵,越发愤。这就是说一个人越是有智慧,越是有胸怀,也就越能避免争吵,避免发怒。这是因为真理总在争吵中失落,正义总在发怒中变形。卡耐基说:天底下只有一种能在争吵中获胜的方式,这就是
In all types of emotions, anger is the worst negative emotion in control. Once it is generated in the mind with its contradictory stasis, it is like sitting on a crater, making people get hot and dry, and their heartbeat accelerates. Like the sudden burst of magma has to erupt, it eventually leads to quarrels and conflicts. Plato said: The more stupid people, the more arguments, the more angry. This means that the more intelligent and mindful a person is, the more they can avoid argument and avoid getting angry. This is because truth is always lost in quarrels and justice is always deformed in anger. Carnegie said: There is only one way to win in the quarrel, which is