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王菲唱“我们的爱惰是场轰轰烈烈的战争。”一波三折,尝尽爱恨离别滋味的天后,一语道破天机,恋爱关系犹如排兵布阵,-招不慎也许满盘皆输。女人在当中的位置与处境尤其尴尬,因天性对爱情的渴望与执著,难免飞蛾扑火粉身碎骨--若能真这样也算不枉此生了,但绝大多数女子根本无法做到“忘我”境界,接受着女性主义的思潮熏陶与现今市面上大张旗鼓呼吁“独立坚强,不依附男人”的口号蛊惑,一个个化身为女金刚,不遑男性。这种传统与现实,内心与外在的矛盾,时时刻刻都在折磨着恋爱中的女性。如何抉择,其实说到底就是四个字“忠于自我”。
Faye Wong singing “Our love is a vigorous battle of love and lazy.” Twists and turns, taste the love and hate to leave the day after taste, a word secret opportunity, love relationship like a platoon, - accidentally may lose the whole dish. Woman in the middle of the position and the situation is particularly embarrassing, due to the nature of the desire for love and dedication, it is hard to avoid moths fiery - if it can be true, but this life, but the vast majority of women simply can not do “selfless ”Realm, embraced by the feminist ideology and today’s high profile on the market appeal “ independent strong, independent of man ”slogan confused, one by one as a female Diamond, not male. This traditional and realistic, inner and outer conflicts, all the time in the torture of women in love. How to choose, in fact, in the final analysis is the word “loyalty to self ”.