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在我三十而立之年时,作为一名心理学家和教育工作者,想和家长们谈谈如何教育孩子做到行为美的问题。我认为教育孩子彬彬有礼,称心合意,道理其实很简单。在你看到孩子举止得体时,你一定会以赞许的眼光,微笑的面孔,或亲吻搂抱,或拍拍肩膀夸奖一番,你的回报表明你认为孩子的行为高尚,大有希望。为鼓励孩子做到行为美,下面我想给家长介绍6点具有建议性的做法: 1.和孩子建立亲密无间的关系。常常有这样的情况:家长和孩子的谈话根本不是在谈话:“露丝,不要用手乱摸书橱!”“宋契,我对你讲过多少次不要总是缠住你姐姐?”这类谈话实质上是在下达指示,颁布命
As a psychologist and educator on my thirtieth day, I wanted to talk with my parents about how to educate children on how to behave beautifully. I think it is very simple to teach children to be courteous and agreeable. When you see your child behaving in moderation, you will praise with praise, a smiling face, a kiss, a cuddle, or a pat on your shoulder. Your rewards indicate that you think your child is acting noble and promising. In order to encourage children to behave beautifully, I would like to introduce parents to introduce a 6-point suggestion: 1. To establish an intimate relationship with children. Often there is such a situation: parents and children are not talking at all: “Ruth, do not touch the bookcase with your hands! ” “Song Qi, how many times do I tell you do not always entangle your sister? ”Such talks are in essence issued a directive, promulgated life