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世界上大概有了生命,就有了羡慕之说不论是生产力低下的原始社会,还是物质极大丰富的现代社会,人与人总归有所区别。生活方面的,物质方面的,爱情方面的,智力方面的,能力方面的,气质方面的,家庭方面的,情趣方面的,长相方面的,等等,等等,可以列举的很多。有了区别便有了不平衡。这种不平衡是心理作用,但直接贯穿着全身,带有感情的色彩,演变成精神状态就是羡慕。有关词语解释的书籍中,说“羡慕”跟“贪”有点关联。仔细想想很有道理。羡慕的本身不就是看着别人有自己没有,心里发急,恨不得自己也能如此吗?羡慕的例子生活中比比皆是,可以顺手拈来。尤其当今社会,能令人羡慕的事情和东西太多了。有人发了财,由一个穷光蛋一下子变成了腰缠万贯的大亨,羡慕的人不光是没钱的人,有钱的也肯定心里痒痒;有人其貌不扬,冷不丁娶了个俊俏的媳妇,让那些帅哥也会羡慕的心里发酸;有人寒窗苦读,一下子拿下了高额奖学金,同样是莘莘学子们会羡慕得直叹息:这种好事怎么不落在自己头上呢?有人平
There is probably life in the world, and there is envy that there is always a difference between people, whether they are the primitive society with low productivity or the modern society with material richness. Life, material, love, intelligence, competence, temperament, family, taste, appearance, and so on, to name a few. With the difference there will be an imbalance. This imbalance is a psychological effect, but directly throughout the body, with emotional color, evolved into the state of mind is envy. Words related to the interpretation of the book, saying “envy ” is somewhat related with “greedy”. Think carefully makes sense. Envy itself is not looking at other people have their own, anxious anxious, can not wait for their own can do? Envy of the examples of life abound, you can easily come. Especially in today’s society, there are so many envy things and things. Someone made a fortune, from a poor man suddenly turned into wealthy tycoon, the envy of not only people who are not rich, money is certainly heart itch; some unsympathetic, cold married a handsome daughter, let those handsome The envy of the heart sour; someone studying hard cold window, all of a sudden won the high scholarship, the same students will envy sigh: how this kind of good thing does not fall on his head?