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一天早晨起床后,儿子没有按父亲的规定去背英语,而是拿起了地理课本。父亲不问青红皂白,把儿子训斥了一顿。过后父亲才知道,当天上午儿子班上要考地理。很显然,是父亲错了,他不该不问清缘由就对儿子乱加训斥。 按理说,一个人做错了事,伤害了别人,必须向人家道歉。做父母的错了,也应该向孩子道歉。可是,有许多家长却认为,向孩子道歉会起到纵容的作用,并且有损做父亲的威信与尊严,所以,往往就没有想到或根本就不愿意向孩子道歉。 儿童心理学家指出:在一个家庭内,家长威信的树立,并非是他们的一贯正确,而是实事求是、严于律己,进而取信于
One morning after getting up, the son did not go back to English as the father’s rule, but picked up the geography textbook. Father does not ask indiscriminate, scolded his son a meal. After his father learned that the son of the class that day to test geography. Obviously, his father was wrong, and he should not betray his son without asking why. Logically, a person doing something wrong, hurting others, we must apologize to others. Parents wrong, we should apologize to the children. However, many parents think that apologizing to their children can play a conniving role and undermine their father’s authority and dignity. Therefore, they often do not think or simply do not want to apologize to their children. Child psychologists pointed out: In a family, the establishment of prestige of parents is not always their correctness. They are seeking truth from facts, being strict with oneself and gaining the trust in