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用拔苗助长这种违反客观规律的做法来培养孩子,肯定是要失败的。但是消极地完全“顺其自然”的态度,也不利于孩子的成长。遵照客观规律,积极创造条件,让孩子锻炼,这才是我们应该采取的正确做法。六七岁的孩子要不要帮助家长去打水,许多家长是拿不定主意的,万一胳膊扭了,再把桶摔了,还是长大些再锻炼也不晚;况且水桶也实在太大,就更有不让孩子打水的理由了。
It is certain that we must fail to cultivate children by using this technique to encourage such violations of objective laws. However, it is not conducive to children’s growth that their attitude of “letting go” is completely negative. Follow the objective laws, actively create conditions for children to exercise, this is the right approach we should take. Six or seven-year-old children should not help parents to draw water, many parents are undecided, in case an arm twisted, and then fell out of the barrel, or grow up and then exercise is not too late; Moreover, the bucket is too large, There is more reason not to let the children fetch water.