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夫妻淡漠,是近年家庭生活中较突出的问题。原因是什么呢?好好想一想:或许对增进爱情有帮助。 婚后,在不如意中又去强化那“抹不去的记忆与甜蜜” 如今年轻人谈恋爱,挑选三五个之后才结婚属正常之列。然而,一种不大正常的心理现象是:“失去的总是最好的。”一些因种种情况而失恋的年轻人,总爱习惯性地将“失去的那位”加以美化,在遗憾中怀念不已。特别是在婚后,一旦觉得配偶不够理想时,这种怀旧心理会更为强烈。“情有独钟”之下,必然表现出对配偶情感的淡漠。而
Couple indifference, is more prominent in family life in recent years. What are the reasons? Think about it: maybe it helps to improve love. After marriage, in the unhappy to go intensify the “elusive memory and sweet” Today, the young people fall in love, select three or five married before it is normal. However, a less normal psychological phenomenon is: “Lost is always the best.” Some young people who fall due to various circumstances often love to beautify their “lost” person in regret Miss endless. Especially after marriage, this kind of nostalgia will be more intense once the partner is found to be less than ideal. “Soft spot”, inevitably show the feelings of the spouse of indifference. and