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儿子生性懦弱。不知不觉,他已4岁了。他的这种天性暴露得愈来愈明显。儿子经常一个人蹓(足达)出去,可又经常一个人哭天抹泪地跑回家。有一次,我见他跟另一个孩子争抢一块小板,争抢不到,就不停地啜泣。看到我来了,竟仰面朝天,闭着眼伤心地大哭。起初,我们舍他不得,总是一个劲儿地抚慰,让他慢慢地平静下来,教导他要同小伙伴友好相处,一起玩耍。可是,儿子太依赖,太不坚强,动不动就嚎啕大哭,这样下去,怎么得了?我们很担心,也很不耐烦。有一次,儿子又哭哭啼啼跑回来,我看他那副既可怜又窝囊的模样,真有点“哀其不幸,怒其不争”。我生气地将他向墙边一掖,吼道:“哭,哭,哭什么!谁欺负你,你就不会去揍他?!”我和爱人商量,决定对他正式进行“野性训练”——不管遇到什么事情,不准哭;从外面哭回来,不予理睬,不准进门;自己在外面发生了纠纷,自己去解决;受人欺负,立刻还击,决不退让……我们坚
Son of weakness. Unconsciously, he is 4 years old. His nature is more and more exposed. Son often 蹓 (foot up) out, but often a person crying tears to run home. Once, I saw him competing with another child for a small board, scramble, we kept sobbing. When I saw myself, I turned my back and shouted sadly with my eyes closed. At first, we could not give him up and always tried to soothe and let him calm down slowly, telling him to get along well with friends and play together. However, too dependent on his son, too strong, crying at every turn, so go on, how got? We are very worried and impatient. Once, his son cried and ran back, I see his pair of both pitiful and useless appearance, really a bit “sad sorrow, indignation”. I am angry to him a tuck to the wall, shouted: “cry, cry, cry what! Who bully you, you will not go to beat him?!” I and my wife to discuss, decided to formally carry him “ Wild training ”- no matter what happened, are not allowed to cry; cry back from outside, ignore, are not allowed to enter the door; himself outside the dispute, to solve their own; by bullies, and immediately fight back, never give in ... we are strong